Hatred or misunderstanding! Good for me !

Nishant Netaji
3 min readSep 11, 2020

I was having these thoughts for quite a few days about people who hate me or have misunderstood me. There is a great quote that has stayed in my mind, which is “ If you love me, I am in your heart. If you hate me, I am in your mind. So, no matter what, am always with you”…..hahaha…there is a naughty touch in it, isn’t it?

I have managed to achieve the hatred or misunderstanding of many people. Because I see or perceive or understand or grasp those things which others don’t. So, my faith about my decisions is so high and on the contrary, people just dont have any faith on my decisions. So the next step is quarrel or arguments. The funny thing is I have never taken quarrels or arguments seriously and I thought the same about others too. But no, others take it very seriously. My intention was just to be vocal about what my ideology was, that’s all. And its about my try to ensure that everyone has a deeper insight about it , no matter whatsoever.

There are some friends who have made sarcastic attacks on me with the hope that I will retaliate on it but instead i chose to agree to it because i know myself and am only answerable to my myself, I don’t need to convince anyone else.

The most best thing I have enjoyed is when people push me towards a corner, ignore me and avoid me. With that they think, that they have done enough damage to me but the reality? Reality is that I have always preferred to be ignored or avoided so that I can be in my own space. I hate noise, I hate unwanted conversations and i hate good for nothing so called friends because all it does is energy loss and nothing else. The most irritating fact is when i come across people who think that they are superior to others. And the most funny fact is when i feel like running away when my relatives visit home, because none of our interests match and i see to it that I give only one word answers to their questions and they easily understand that am not interested for a conversation.

I remember my Guru, who said , “ A vast tree becomes one after losing many dry leaves. Don’t forget it .” I also remember when I heard that a friend of mine complained about me to my Guru and he gave a classic reply, “ Nishant prefers to learn with experience. Not mere words”..

Lesser the people, better your life……

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Nishant Netaji
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